👶 What to Expect When a Child Arrives
The first day in your home is one of the most important steps in building trust. Here’s how to create safety and warmth within the first 24 hours.
📦 Prepare a Welcome Kit
Include new toiletries, a cozy blanket, a stuffed animal, snacks, a journal, and basic clothing items. Personalized touches help the child feel seen.
🍽️ Offer Food, Comfort, and Space
Have a simple meal ready. Allow them to settle in at their own pace. Offer a quiet space and don’t pressure them to engage immediately.
🤐 Avoid Overwhelming Questions
Avoid asking too many personal or intrusive questions. Let them lead conversations and respond gently to what they choose to share.
🧠 Practice Trauma-Informed Parenting
Assume that past experiences may influence behaviors. Be patient, validate their feelings, and avoid punishments that could feel retraumatizing.
📞 Communicate with the Team
Stay in touch with your caseworker, the child’s GAL (Guardian ad Litem), and biological family (when appropriate). Keep notes from your first day for documentation.